Mom and Dad ask, “Where did we go wrong!?!”… part 4 by Ken Nair I asked him this question, “If they were to re-hire that former boss would that past experience with him make you feel threatened? Would you worry because that former boss used to be so controlling? Would re-hiring him be intimidating to you? He answered, “Very!” I […]
Relationship Help | How to Raise Children Without Parents Facing Grief and Guilt Part 3
Mom and Dad ask, “Where did we go wrong!?!”… continued by Ken Nair It’s surprising to see how many Christian’s don’t seem to recognize or understand the difference between Christ as Savior and Christ as Lord. Being unable to recognize Ben’s struggle resulted in alienation between him and his parents. Too many parents themselves have been functioning as members-in-good-standing of […]
Relationship Help | How to Raise Children Without Parents Facing Grief and Guilt Part 2
Mom and Dad ask, “Where did we go wrong!?!” Continued… by Ken Nair In order to help Ben capture what I wanted to tell him, I used the following illustration. Some time back I was leading one of our Christ Quest Institutes classes in California. (We conduct discipleship classes where the students are married couples. Our goal is for Christian husbands to literally […]
Relationship Help | Difficulties of Not Being Prepared to Raise Children
Parenting 101 by Nancy Nair About 4 years after we got married, my daughter was born. How sad is it to have a baby and later realize that I was not prepared to train her properly. I never realized that I could completely destroy her spirit because of not being prepared. I guess I thought it was easy to have a […]