An open letter to the husbands of Christ-Quest Institute from a wife on the one-year anniversary of suffering the sudden loss of her husband during the early weeks of their second semester of class. My husband, Lee, and I began to take classes in September 1997. Lee was beginning to make progress. But eight months in to the classes he […]
Relationship Help | How to Have True Faith by Relying on God
Giving God Control and You Letting Go by Denise (Nair) Wedel Imagine an animal with a rope around its neck, struggling for its life in the water. The rope slowly begins to wrap around him, eventually causing this poor animal to drown. So it is with us when we insist on “saving ourselves”. Now, we claim to have faith….but do […]
Relationship Help | How to Raise Children Without Parents Facing Grief and Guilt Part 5
Mom and Dad ask, “Where did we go wrong!?!” Continued… by Ken Nair When our youngsters quit listening, it’s usually because they feel we’ve quit listening. Or they’ve decided they can’t convince us that they’re right and we’re wrong. If the last is true, a child is at the place where he or she has to decide whether or not […]
Marriage | Results of a Christ-like Spiritual Leader in a Marriage
The Effect of a Christ-Like Husband by Ken Nair and S.M. Often, as I am working with a husband whose wife has left him, maybe even involved with another man, he challenges his wife’s relationship with God. When he asks me, What about her? What is her relationship with God? Doesn’t she have to be Christ-like, too? I respond, Don’t […]
Marriage | The Secret to Having Great Communication in Your Marriage
Having A Spirit-to-Spirit Relationship With God and Your Spouse by Nancy Nair I think that if we really knew how things hurt us, and what feeling it was that went on inside of us, we would be better prepared to help others when they are hurting. If we don’t get to know those feelings and what each of those feelings […]